
When did they last eat or drink? Do they need to use the bathroom, or do they have a dirty diaper/pull-up? Is there a loud noise or bright light? Are they tired or in pain? Review these regularly to avoid your child becoming so distressed they feel the need to communicate in other ways. Think about what could be bothering them.

They might be trying to tell you something they need before resorting to aggression. It may seem like it is not directed toward you but could be an indirect method of communication. It’s important to notice these little gestures, like pointing at or pulling you to something. It can be easy to overlook moments when your child is trying to communicate with you, especially if they are non-speaking. Look for nonverbal signs of communication.
Aggressive autism meltdown professional#
Here are some professional and parent-approved strategies you can try at home:ġ. Whatever it is, your child may resort to aggressive behavior because they feel it is the only way you will understand or give them attention. Maybe your child wants you to do something else, give them something they need, or don’t like what you are doing at that moment. Oftentimes children become aggressive when they struggle to communicate their needs and wants. How do you help your child through aggressive behaviors like biting, hitting, pushing, or throwing things?Įxpert Tips for Understanding and Managing Aggression with Empathyīehavior is a form of communication. But those really tough moments with challenging behaviors can leave you feeling frustrated and confused.

From dinosaur facts to hand flapping or knowing all the words to every Disney song, your child adds so much to your life. It takes all kinds of minds to make our communities special and diverse places. We don’t want to make them “less autistic,” or take away the things that make them unique and interesting.
